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š”SKILLS SPOTLIGHT
The Career Skill No One Teaches: How to Manage Up Effectively

Managing upā can sound uncomfortableāespecially in STEM, where independence and technical excellence are often emphasized.
But managing up isnāt about flattery or control. Itās about creating clarity, alignment, and trust so your workāand your managerās decisionsāare more effective.
Professionals who master this skill experience less friction, more autonomy, and faster growth.
šWhy Managing Up Matters
Your manager:
1ļøā£Sets priorities
2ļøā£Allocates resources
3ļøā£Advocates for you when youāre not in the room
When communication is unclear, even great work can miss the mark. Managing up ensures your effort translates into impact.
š§ 3 Practical Ways to Manage Up (Without Feeling Awkward)
1. Boundary around ownership
Donāt assume alignmentāconfirm it.
Useful questions include:
- āWhat does success look like for you here?ā
- āAre we optimizing for speed, accuracy, or learning?ā
Clarity upfront prevents rework later.
2. Communicate outcomes, not just updates
Instead of listing tasks, highlight:
- Progress towards goals
- Risk or blockers
- Decisions needed
This helps your manager support you effectivelyāand trust your judgment.
3. Anticipate before escalating
Strong managing up includes proposing solutions, not just problems.
Try:
- Hereās the issue, two options I see, and my recommendation.ā
This positions you as a thinking partner, not just an executor.
š”Pro Tip
Managing up is a leadership skill in disguise. The better you get at it, the more autonomy and influence you earn
Weekly Challenge
This week, improve one interaction with your manager by:
- Clarifying expectations
- Framing work in outcomes
- Offering a recommendation instead of a question
Small shifts build strong working relationships.


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